I am not blaming the wife for what happened. I just think this is a classic example of why people should not stay married if they are not happy. If you want to be with someone else than divorce! Otherwise situations like this can occur. This guy was trying to have his cake and eat it too. Obviously it came back to bite him in the butt. It is possible that the wife knew that things were not right in the marriage, but was trying to make things work. Possibly when the husband decided he wanted to do the same is when the other woman figured that out and just decided if she could not have him no one would. The real tragic part is that the kids have to grow up without their father because of his foolish and selfish decisions.

From the news reports he was cheating on the one he was cheating with.Lord knows this is getting to be a crazy world.
Alabamaoutlaw

hey,hey, done be like that. hate the game not the player. tuff break player, we going to miss you dog. NOT!

if this were me & my husband was murder beside his girlfriend i would be happy they died together since they wanted to be w/ each other so bad. but i would also be mad that i didn’t know before he died that he was cheating on me so i could kill both of them.

Oh how lovely. Let’s blame the wife. Does that mean you cheat on your wife? The one who’s raising the children, working a full time job, busting her butt in general and wondering why you go off drinking “with the boys” all weekend, instead of helping around the house like a normal,loving husband? Yeah, I’ve heard that sorry excuse before. Any woman who falls for that line deserves the loser she gets.

He probably lead this girl on with the hopes that he would leave his wife. She probably figured out that he was just using her for other means and was indeed not going to leave his wife. She probably lost it. Plus why would he be with this girl instead of his family on the 4th of July? True the wife may not have known the girl, but she probably knew that there was indeed someone else. This is why I always say if your not happy divorce! Other wise situations like this can occur.

It would be easy not to know about the Escalade but why did he have an apt downtown?

Yeah. How do you not know your husband has a Escalade registered in his name and another woman’s name???

http://www.examiner.com/x-14795-SLO-Headlines-Examiner~y2009m7d5-Sahel-Kazemi

She knew. Of course she knew. Just like she knew she wasn’t doing what she was supposed to be doing to keep her man at home (like most “unaware” spouses who get cheated on). Classic denial. Sad story though.

the spouse who was cheated on is usually the last to know.“This really isnt what it looks like”. everyone including the community looses in this one.