momoftwo - 16 January 2008 07:15 PM
Since there are so many that feel the other tragedies on this bridge should also be remembered, why not name it Angel Bridge. That way it will honor the memory of anyone whose life was lost as well as these children.
As the original author of this thread and the one who started the petition, I would like to thank everyone for their comments and insight. I did this because I saw how many people were affected by this tragedy and wanted the children to be honored in some way. Several had already proposed the name Four Angels Bridge, and I began to make the contacts to see if this could be done. Because the bridge is owned by the state of
Alabama, not Dauphin Island as some would like to believe, this will be a long drawn out process that will probably have to be voted on during an election, by all of MOBILE COUNTY citizens.
My first and foremost concern is for the mother's wishes. But I see no problem with gathering information and getting input at this point. Like I said, this will be a long process,not something that will happen overnight or even within a few months. If the mother did not want this to happen, then everything could be withdrawn-end of story. But if she did want this memorial to her children, then we would be that many steps closer to making it a reality.
I am in no way down-playing any other tragedies that have happened on the bridge, but I honestly can't remember any that have affected an entire community as much as this has. This has affected people from Florida to Mississippi. This is not just a Dauphin Island or Bayou La Batre or even a South Mobile County tragedy-it is a Gulf Coast tragedy.
Would it be honoring their father? I don't think so. No one has said let's make a Lam Loung memorial. This is for the children, for their mother and for everyone who cares. It is a way to memorialize their final resting place. There are crosses all over town where people have been killed in automobile wrecks, some with personal items hanging on them such as favorite shirts, pictures, etc. Everyone has their own ideas as to what an appropriate memorial should be, or whether there should be a memorial. This is just one idea. Regardless of whether this ever gets any farther than just "talking" about on a message board-those children need to be remembered. And if Mr. Loung gets satisfaction out of his children being remembered, that his problem,not mine-because I am definitely NOT doing this to remember him. Only the kids, only those beautiful babies.